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Katie

by fulghum21 on 2004 Sep 3 - 21:47 | reply to this comment
Submissive daughter and submissive wife
Are you serious? You really beleive that a woman's husband should be chosen by her father? i mean, you're not joking? Please tell me you're joking!

by Louise C on 2004 Sep 3 - 21:49 | reply to this comment
My husband doesn't feel the need to control me
I am a submissive wife [but] [c]ertainly my husband doesn't need to 'control' me or make me 'feel vulnerable' - or worse, 'hurt' me - in order to be dominant. It's the fact that he is so considerate and loving that makes me want me to submit to him.

Nina

by a Taken In Hand reader on 2004 Sep 3 - 22:33 | reply to this comment
An incredibly powerful article
There is a lot in there I can relate to. Spanking can be incredibly cathartic to me, especially when I've got stuck in a destructive loop.

I've not got the feeling that Noone's advocating changing a woman into what her man wants her to be. In both articles, it struck me more as a warning note - the woman must choose her man carefully because when she's vulnerable, the wrong man might take advantage, whereas the right one will build her up to be the best person she can. And also a warning to men that mis-chosen words could destroy their women.