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 87 Jesus Mahoney November 17, 2011 at 11:09 pm
Think about it. Two men make debut appearances at HUS on the same day, on the same thread. Both men are named after old athletes. Each man has taken the POV that’s the diametrical opposite of the other. Drama ensues.

Dr. Doom=tmunson.

 88 Jules November 18, 2011 at 1:26 am
Susan, I used to like your blog a lot more but this really makes me sad. As someone who went through a lot of sexual harassment in the workplace, you obviously want to help stop harassment. In order to do that, we cannot downplay SH as something that women (or men) should just laugh off. It’s not about whether or not women can take a joke, it’s about the power dynamics in the workplace, and when women are feeling humiliated, scared, or violated at work, they should not be blamed for speaking up. Also, since when are dirty jokes and sex talk necessary for an interesting, dynamic workplace? I’d much rather have sex not mentioned at work at all (unless it was pertinent to the work itself). Just because there’s no sex in it does not make work “drab.” The fact that it’s work makes it drab haha

 

 89 Esau November 18, 2011 at 2:09 am
Jules: “it’s about the power dynamics in the workplace, and when women are feeling humiliated, scared, or violated at work, they should not be blamed for speaking up.”

Does it occur to you, that men can also feel humiliated, scared or violated at work, because they perceive a significant risk that they can have their career seriously harmed, or even be fired, if they ever happen to make some woman feel subjectively uncomfortable?  To whom, do you think, should men speak up?  about this power dynamic.

 90 stillcode November 18, 2011 at 6:57 am
@Dogsquat

I agree 100%. The healthcare profession is full of mines that you need to navigate. For us it’s always, “guilty until proven innocent” so it’s best to just keep to yourself, put up with whatever crap (sexual harassment related or not) they throw at you until you’ve made it through the day and then get the heck out of there. Woe be to any man or woman who becomes the target of bullying and ridicule by the hens in the hen house.

 91 Susan Walsh November 18, 2011 at 8:04 am
@Jules