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- Bhetti –
- The most important point about what no.2 encapsulates is not regarding his money as your right. It is absolutely not. Treating it that way is poisonous.
- david foster PERMALINK
- November 16, 2009 10:10 am
- 1)Charles Dickens: “Annual income twenty pounds, annual expenditure nineteen nineteen six, result happiness. Annual income twenty pounds, annual expenditure twenty pounds ought and six, result misery.”
- 2)Why restrict yourself to *female* financial writers? Although there are some gender-specific financial issues, 95% of financial knowledge appllies equally to men and to women.
- Bhetti–
- 1) Yes, from that saying! Thank you.
- 2)My favourite website Get Rich Slowly by JD is not run by a woman but I found family-focused and female-focused blogs more relevant to me and how I thought, I suppose. I did read more widely on finance than that and don’t limit myself to women. I would suggest wider reading for greater depth beyond these principles.
- DADT PERMALINK
- November 16, 2009 11:51 am
- 2 and 3 contradict one another.
- Bhetti
- They could be, depending if one of you is bullied by the other. Keeping your finances separate but being honest about them are separate issues.
- novaseeker PERMALINK
- November 16, 2009 12:45 pm
- I think that the best arrangement is having three accounts: one joint account for paying joint expenses (and you each agree as to who deposits what in that account), and two separate individual accounts for each person. Provided that there is a set agreement as to what goes into the joint account from where, that cuts down on financial stress. Not having separate accounts used to be doable, but in the contemporary culture of self-actualization, it’s normally a source of tremendous trepidation from one or both parties.